Spencer Lazzari
CHI 321
Dr. Luo
12/8/2013
Final Project: Eat Drink Man Woman
From the
sound of the sizzling oil as the battered fish is dropped into the wok to the
clatter of the cleaver upon the cutting board when cutting a ripe water
chestnut, Eat Drink Man Woman by Ang Lee
was a captivating film. In an interview, Lee described how he wanted to make a
film about “a chef and his three daughters, each going a different way” (Ang
Lee Interview: Freedom in Film, p. 335). Because of this, not only was the sight
and sound of the food captivating, but the intricate relationship between the
family members keeps the viewer’s attention throughout the entire film. Similarly
to how “Old Chu” extensively prepares a meal using a wide variety of
ingredients, him and his 3 daughters, who are all very different, come together
to form a dish and chemistry of their very own, a family.
As all great
chefs know, in order to create a great dish, you must first know your
ingredients. The first “ingredient” in the “dish” (rather Chu’s family) that we
will be discussing here is the middle-child, Jia-Chien. Although you can tell
her personality by her dealings with the family, it is best described by Chu’s
friend “Old Wen,” when he describes her by saying “That girl just didn’t come
from nowhere. Jia-Chien is the perfect blend of you (Chu) and her mother: her
mother’s stubbornness and willfulness, and the pickiness and pomposity… come
straight from you!” (Eat Drink Man Woman. 00:22:43). As far as food goes, I
believe that ingredient she best embodies is garlic. One of the prominent
traits that both garlic and Jia-Chien share is being zippy (which for people we
would call being “sassy”). This can be seen when Chu and her are talking and he
says “How many times have I told you not to fall asleep at your desk? It’s bad
for your posture”; to which she retorts quickly, even in her sleep deprived
state, “And didn’t the doctor tell you that jogging was bad for your back?”
(Eat Drink Man Woman, 00:25:05). This scene clearly makes it known that
Jia-Chien has no problem expressing how she feels. Another trait that both
Jia-Chien and garlic possess is strength.
One thing that makes her strong is the fact that she is so independent.
As a young 20-something living in the city, she has really made a name for
herself as an airline executive; and the fact that she is about to get promoted
to a better job in another country further describes how independent she truly
is. Not only is her strength displayed in her independence, but also through
how has to juggle her life and make decisions. For example, when she is at the
first Sunday dinner scene in the film, she tells her family “I have a little
announcement to make… [talks about an apartment her friend has a connection to]…he
was able to get my bid in for a good price” (Eat Drink Man Woman, 00:13:24). It
takes a very strong person to move away from their family, especially one that
is already somewhat separated, and that the fact that they are separated
clearly causes the father grief.
The next
character that I would like to discuss is the oldest daughter, Jia-jen. For me,
she is best represented by the ingredient of cooking wine. There are several
reasons why I think she is best suited for this description. One of the
greatest traits that makes her like wine is her age, and with age comes wisdom.
For instance during one of the scenes in the family kitchen, the daughters are
all cleaning up and discussing their father’s personal matters. When Jia-Chien
makes a snide comment, Jia-jing quickly responds (showing her age and wisdom)
by saying “What do you know? Maybe it’s not romance to you but it was found on
real old-fashioned respect and values…how would you know [though]? You were a
kid when she died” (Eat Drink Man Woman, 00:17:30). Another instance in the
film when Jia-Jen shows her age is when she and Jin-Rong are outside on the
back porch talking. They are talking about the future of Chu and she says “Father
wants to live with me…How many more Sunday dinners can we have? Jia-Ning is
young, Jia-Chien is independent, so I’ll have to take care of Dad [Chu] for the
rest of my life” (Eat Drink Man Woman, 00:20:14). This is something that takes
a lot of maturity (which comes with age) to admit. Bitterness is another trait
that Jia-jen shares with the wine I compared her too earlier. One of the most
prominent instances of the film this happens at is when her students are
passing one of their classmate’s notes through the room and she catches them.
We learn earlier in the film that she had a boyfriend earlier in the film and
it didn’t end well. Her father lets us know this when he is talking to Old Wen
and asks (rhetorically), Jia-jin will “marry who? Since she lost her asshole
college boyfriend she’s never looked at another man.” (Eat Drink Man Woman,
00:21:50). When she is in the classroom and she sees the love note, it clearly
bothers her because she says, “Writing love letters in chemistry class?” (Eat
Drink Man Woman, 00:28:00) when the boy responds letting her know that someone
wrote it to him, she quickly snaps back with “So what? What is this doing in
class? Showing off? Who hasn't received love letters before?” (Eat Drink Man
Woman, 00:28:30). It’s worth noting that this event occurs right after she goes
outside to return the ball to the men’s volleyball team, and when she first
sees the coach; the man that we later find out she was feeling affection for.
The final
component of our “dish” that we are creating is Jia-Ning, the student and
fast-food restaurant employee. At first, it was difficult to put a finger on
what contribution she would make to our dish, but after thinking about it, it
is as simple as plain, white rice. How exactly would this component add any
noticeable difference to our “dish” (family)? First of all, relative to her
other sisters, she is fairly mellow. A simple example of this would be when the
sisters are all working in the kitchen together. If you notice she is going
around mediating the conversation, and making sure everyone is alright
(specifically Jia-jin). When the other two start to fight with each other, she
butts in and says “Stop it you two” (Eat Drink Man Woman, 00:17:30); she is the
the voice of reason and neutrality in that discussion. However, although she,
by herself, is somewhat of a mild-mannered person, being that she is around the
others, she is influenced by their actions; similar to how rice in a dish takes
on the stronger flavors of the other ingredients. One example of this is when
she starts to get into love matters of her own. One day after she gets off of
work, she goes outside to tell her friend’s boyfriend that his girlfriend will
be an hour late. However, you can see through her actions, especially the way
she looks at him in the end, that she has feelings for him (Eat Drink Man
Woman, 00:08:40). Being that she is going after this boy while her friend is
still seeing him (well, somewhat seeing him) shows that she is taking after her
sister’s (Jia-Chien) “go getter” attitude. However, she is also smart about it
and takes her time, which is more like what her other sister, Jia-jin, would
do. It is in this way that she not only absorbs the personality of those around
her, but also through that mellows the family out.
To me, it is
easy to see how these three girls come together to form family; the three
totally different ingredients, with entirely different sights, smells, and
tastes, come together to form a wonderful dish. However, if it wasn’t for the
father’s insisting, they would not come together successfully. If you really think
about it, one of the main things holding these girls, who have such different
lives, together is the fact that the father holds his Sunday dinners; he is
essentially carefully preparing them and bringing them together, just like he
would with any dish.
Works Cited
Ang Lee. Freedom in Film. Pg. 335. Interview.
Eat Drink Man Wwoman. Dir. Ang Lee. Perf. Sihung Lung and Chien-lien Wu. Zhong
Yang Dian Ying Chu Pin Fa Xing, 1994. DVD.